Halacha: Reuven bought metal which he believed was made out of lead and he paid a price that was commensurate with the perceived value. Reuven then sells the piece of metal to Shimon for the same price. Shimon then discovers that the piece of metal is silver and was worth far more than he paid for it. Does he owe Reuven money? Is the sale canceled?
The Hagaos Ashrei paskens that Shimon can keep the silver and does not need to make any further payments because Reuven never owned the silver because he thought he owned lead.
Question: What is this Halacha teaching us about our relationship with Hashem?
The Gemara relates that Rav Yosef, on the day of Shavuot, would say: Prepare me a choice third-born calf. He said: If not for this day on which the Torah was given that caused the Jewish people to have the Torah, how many Yosefs would there be in the market?
Question: Is this true? if the Torah would not have been given to us we would not be individuals? We would just be like everyone else?
דבר אחר ויאמר ה' מסיני בא, כשנגלה הקדוש ברוך הוא ליתן תורה לישראל לא על ישראל בלבד הוא נגלה אלא על כל האומות, תחילה הלך אצל בני עשו אמר להם מקבלים אתם את התורה אמרו לו מה כתוב בה אמר להם (שמות כ יג) לא תרצח אמרו כל עצמם של אותם האנשים ואביהם רוצח הוא שנאמר (בראשית כז כב) והידים ידי עשו (שם כז מ) ועל חרבך תחיה הלך אצל בני עמון ומואב אמר להם מקבלים אתם את התורה אמרו לו מה כתוב בה אמר להם (שמות שם) לא תנאף אמרו לו כל עצמה של ערוה להם היא שנאמר (בראשית יט לו) ותהרין שתי בנות לוט מאביהן הלך אצל בני ישמעאל אמר להם מקבלים אתם את התורה אמרו לו מה כתוב בה אמר להם (שמות שם) לא תגנוב אמרו לו כל עצמם אביהם ליסטים היה שנאמר (בראשית טז יב) והוא יהיה פרא אדם וכן לכל אומה ואומה שאל להם אם מקבלים את התורה
Variantly: "And He said: The L-rd came from Sinai": When the L-rd appeared to give Torah to Israel, it is not to Israel alone that He appeared, but to all of the nations. First He went to the children of Esav, and He asked them: Will you accept the Torah? They asked: What is written in it? He answered: "You shall not kill" (Shemoth 20:13). They answered: The entire essence of our father is murder, as it is written (Bereshith 27:22) "And the hands are the hands of Esav." And it is with this that his father assured him (Ibid. 27:40) "And by your sword shall you live." He then went to the children of Ammon and Moav and asked them: Will you accept the Torah? They asked: What is written in it? He answered "You shall not commit adultery." They answered: L-rd of the Universe, ervah (illicit relations) is our entire essence, as it is written (Ibid. 19:36) "And the two daughters of Lot conceived by their father." He then went and found the children of Yishmael and asked them: Will you accept the Torah? They asked: What is written in it? He answered: "You shall not steal" (Shemoth, Ibid.) They answered: L-rd of the Universe, our father's entire essence is stealing, viz. (Bereshith 16:12) "And he (Yishmael) shall be a wild man, his hand against all." There was none among all of the nations to whom He did not go and speak and knock at their door, asking if they would accept the Torah
Question: Why didn't they accept the Torah? They had to kill? They had to have illicit relations? They had to steal?
דְּאָמַר רַב יְהוּדָה אָמַר רַב: מַאי דִּכְתִיב: ״מִי הָאִישׁ הֶחָכָם וְיָבֵן אֶת זֹאת״ — דָּבָר זֶה נִשְׁאַל לַחֲכָמִים וְלַנְּבִיאִים וְלֹא פֵּירְשׁוּהוּ, עַד שֶׁפֵּירְשׁוֹ הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא בְּעַצְמוֹ, דִּכְתִיב: ״וַיֹּאמֶר ה׳ עַל עׇזְבָם אֶת תּוֹרָתִי וְגוֹ׳״. הַיְינוּ ״לֹא שָׁמְעוּ בְּקוֹלִי״, הַיְינוּ ״לֹא הָלְכוּ בָּהּ״! אָמַר רַב יְהוּדָה אָמַר רַב: שֶׁאֵין מְבָרְכִין בַּתּוֹרָה תְּחִלָּה.
This matter, the question as to why Eretz Yisrael was destroyed, was asked of the Sages, i.e., “the wise man,” and of the prophets, “he to whom the mouth of the Lord has spoken,” but they could not explain it. The matter remained a mystery until the Holy One, Blessed be He, Himself explained why Eretz Yisrael was laid waste, as it is written in the next verse: “And the Lord said: Because they have forsaken My Torah which I set before them, and have not obeyed My voice, nor walked therein” (Jeremiah 9:12). It would appear that “have not obeyed My voice” is the same as “nor walked therein.” Rav Yehuda said that Rav said: The expression “nor walked therein” means that they do not first recite a blessing over the Torah, and they are therefore liable to receive the severe punishments listed in the verse.
Questions:
1. Is not making a Bracha such a terrible Aveira? Can it really cause the destruction of the Beis HaMikdash?
2. Is not making a Bracha really considered not walking in the ways of Torah?
Torah is an agent of change
וְאָמַר רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן לֵוִי: בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁעָלָה מֹשֶׁה לַמָּרוֹם אָמְרוּ מַלְאֲכֵי הַשָּׁרֵת לִפְנֵי הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא: רִבּוֹנוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם, מַה לִּילוּד אִשָּׁה בֵּינֵינוּ? אָמַר לָהֶן: לְקַבֵּל תּוֹרָה בָּא. אָמְרוּ לְפָנָיו: חֶמְדָּה גְּנוּזָה שֶׁגְּנוּזָה לָךְ תְּשַׁע מֵאוֹת וְשִׁבְעִים וְאַרְבָּעָה דּוֹרוֹת קוֹדֶם שֶׁנִּבְרָא הָעוֹלָם, אַתָּה מְבַקֵּשׁ לִיתְּנָהּ לְבָשָׂר וָדָם? ״מָה אֱנוֹשׁ כִּי תִזְכְּרֶנּוּ וּבֶן אָדָם כִּי תִפְקְדֶנּוּ״? ״ה׳ אֲדֹנֵינוּ מָה אַדִּיר שִׁמְךָ בְּכׇל הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר תְּנָה הוֹדְךָ עַל הַשָּׁמָיִם״! אָמַר לוֹ הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא לְמֹשֶׁה: הַחְזֵיר לָהֶן תְּשׁוּבָה. אָמַר לְפָנָיו: רִבּוֹנוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם, מִתְיָירֵא אֲנִי שֶׁמָּא יִשְׂרְפוּנִי בַּהֶבֶל שֶׁבְּפִיהֶם. אָמַר לוֹ: אֱחוֹז בְּכִסֵּא כְבוֹדִי וַחֲזוֹר לָהֶן תְּשׁוּבָה. שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: ״מְאַחֵז פְּנֵי כִּסֵּא פַּרְשֵׁז עָלָיו עֲנָנוֹ״, וְאָמַר רַבִּי נַחוּם: מְלַמֵּד שֶׁפֵּירַשׂ שַׁדַּי מִזִּיו שְׁכִינָתוֹ וַעֲנָנוֹ עָלָיו. אָמַר לְפָנָיו: רִבּוֹנוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם, תּוֹרָה שֶׁאַתָּה נוֹתֵן לִי מָה כְּתִיב בָּהּ? ״אָנֹכִי ה׳ אֱלֹהֶיךָ אֲשֶׁר הוֹצֵאתִיךָ מֵאֶרֶץ מִצְרַיִם״. אָמַר לָהֶן: לְמִצְרַיִם יְרַדְתֶּם? לְפַרְעֹה הִשְׁתַּעְבַּדְתֶּם? תּוֹרָה לָמָּה תְּהֵא לָכֶם! שׁוּב: מָה כְּתִיב בָּהּ? ״לֹא יִהְיֶה לְךָ אֱלֹהִים אֲחֵרִים״. בֵּין הַגּוֹיִם אַתֶּם שְׁרוּיִין, שֶׁעוֹבְדִין עֲבוֹדָה זָרָה? שׁוּב: מָה כְּתִיב בָּהּ? ״זָכוֹר אֶת יוֹם הַשַּׁבָּת לְקַדְּשׁוֹ״ — כְּלוּם אַתֶּם עוֹשִׂים מְלָאכָה, שֶׁאַתֶּם צְרִיכִין שְׁבוּת? שׁוּב: מָה כְּתִיב בָּהּ? ״לֹא תִשָּׂא״ — מַשָּׂא וּמַתָּן יֵשׁ בֵּינֵיכֶם? שׁוּב: מָה כְּתִיב בָּהּ? ״כַּבֵּד אֶת אָבִיךָ וְאֶת אִמֶּךָ״ — אָב וָאֵם יֵשׁ לָכֶם? שׁוּב: מָה כְּתִיב בָּהּ? ״לֹא תִּרְצָח״, ״לֹא תִּנְאָף״, ״לֹא תִּגְנֹב״. קִנְאָה יֵשׁ בֵּינֵיכֶם? יֵצֶר הָרָע יֵשׁ בֵּינֵיכֶם? מִיָּד הוֹדוּ לוֹ לְהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר: ״ה׳ אֲדֹנֵינוּ מָה אַדִּיר שִׁמְךָ וְגוֹ׳״, וְאִילּוּ ״תְּנָה הוֹדְךָ עַל הַשָּׁמָיִם״ לָא כְּתִיב.
And Rabbi Yehoshua ben Levi said: When Moses ascended on High to receive the Torah, the ministering angels said before the Holy One, Blessed be He: Master of the Universe, what is one born of a woman doing here among us? The Holy One, Blessed be He, said to them: He came to receive the Torah. The angels said before Him: The Torah is a hidden treasure that was concealed by You 974 generations before the creation of the world, and You seek to give it to flesh and blood? As it is stated: “The word which He commanded to a thousand generations” (Psalms 105:8). Since the Torah, the word of God, was given to the twenty-sixth generation after Adam, the first man, the remaining 974 generations must have preceded the creation of the world. “What is man that You are mindful of him and the son of man that You think of him?” (Psalms 8:5). Rather, “God our Lord, how glorious is Your name in all the earth that Your majesty is placed above the heavens” (Psalms 8:2). The rightful place of God’s majesty, the Torah, is in the heavens. The Holy One, Blessed be He, said to Moses: Provide them with an answer as to why the Torah should be given to the people. Moses said before Him: Master of the Universe, I am afraid lest they burn me with the breath of their mouths. God said to him: Grasp My throne of glory for strength and protection, and provide them with an answer. And from where is this derived? As it is stated: “He causes him to grasp the front of the throne, and spreads His cloud over it” (Job 26:9), and Rabbi Naḥum said: This verse teaches that God spread the radiance of His presence and His cloud over Moses. Moses said before Him: Master of the Universe, the Torah that You are giving me, what is written in it? God said to him: “I am the Lord your God Who brought you out of Egypt from the house of bondage” (Exodus 20:2). Moses said to the angels: Did you descend to Egypt? Were you enslaved to Pharaoh? Why should the Torah be yours? Again Moses asked: What else is written in it? God said to him: “You shall have no other gods before Me” (Exodus 20:3). Moses said to the angels: Do you dwell among the nations who worship idols that you require this special warning? Again Moses asked: What else is written in it? The Holy One, Blessed be He, said to him: “Remember the Shabbat day to sanctify it” (Exodus 20:8). Moses asked the angels: Do you perform labor that you require rest from it? Again Moses asked: What else is written in it? “Do not take the name of the Lord your God in vain” (Exodus 20:7), meaning that it is prohibited to swear falsely. Moses asked the angels: Do you conduct business with one another that may lead you to swear falsely? Again Moses asked: What else is written in it? The Holy One, Blessed be He, said to him: “Honor your father and your mother” (Exodus 20:12). Moses asked the angels: Do you have a father or a mother that would render the commandment to honor them relevant to you? Again Moses asked: What else is written in it? God said to him: “You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal” (Exodus 20:13) Moses asked the angels: Is there jealousy among you, or is there an evil inclination within you that would render these commandments relevant? Immediately they agreed with the Holy One, Blessed be He, that He made the right decision to give the Torah to the people,
The vulnerability of change is that we are being asked to confront our lowest parts and engage them.
Are we capable of change? This is who I am!
Change makes us individuals and we are afraid to leave the herd.
Original Questions:
I AM WHERE I COME FROM
1. Why didn't they accept the Torah? They had to kill? They had to have illicit relations? They had to steal?
Answer: They had a fixed mentality. This is who we are. Change means believing that life is flexible. just because I have been one way...
I AM IN DANGER IF I DON'T FIT IN
2. Is this true? if the Torah would not have been given to us we would not be individuals? We would just be like everyone else?
Answer: Without serious movement against the gravity of social pressure... we lose ourselves to the masses. Great people would be ordinary.
TORAH CONNECTS US TO OUR ROOTS
3. What is this Halacha teaching us about our relationship with Hashem?
4. Is not making a Bracha such a terrible Aveira? Can it really cause the destruction of the Beis HaMikdash?
5. Is not making a Bracha really considered not walking in the ways of Torah?
Answer: Failure to make a Bracha on Torah means that we relate to the body of Torah but not the soul. We are participating in the relationship but we are avoiding the intimacy of the relationship. In that regard we are not even walking in the ways of Torah.
Ishbitzer: one who does not know that his metal is silver does not really own it. We abandoned Hashem's Torah.
Question - Out of order! Should have first told us how they got there?
Refidim - Rafu Yedeihem Min Hatorah. They were attacked by Amalek because they had despaired of being ready for Kabbalas HaTorah. How did they survive? They imagined themselves at Har Sinai receiving the Torah!
בחדש השלישי לצאת בני ישראל מארץ מצרים ביום הזה באו מדבר סיני, ויסעו מרפידים ויבואו מדבר סיני וגו', ויש להבין שהזכיר מעיקרא ביאתם למדבר סיני ואח"כ חזר להזכיר הנסיעה מרפידים והביאה למדבר סיני, והי' צריך לומר ביום הזה נסעו מרפידים ויבואו מדבר סיני ולא הי' צריך לכל האריכות, ונראה שבכאן רמז עצה לאדם, כמו הם שהיו ברפידים רפו ידיהם מן התורה והי' חסר להם התחזקות ולא הי' אפשר להחזיק עצמם אלא במה שציירו בעצמם שעומדים לפני הר סיני לקבל התורה, ועי"ז באמת נעשו כאלו עומדים לפני הר סיני שבמקום שדעתו של אדם שם, הרי הוא כאלו הי' שם בפועל, כמו שאמרנו זה במק"א בשם כ"ק אבי אדמו"ר זצללה"ה, וענין זה החזיק בידם להחליף כח וליסע מהרפיון ידים, וכמו שאמר אדמו"ר הרי"ם זצללה"ה מגור על מאמר העולם, בל"א אז מען קען ניכט אריבער מוז מען ארינטער, ואני אומר להיפוך אז מען קען ניכט ארינטער מוז מען אריבער, והיינו כנ"ל שיצייר בנפשו מעלות גבוהות בזה יחליף כח כנ"ל:
Final Answer:
The Goyim did not accept the Torah because they said this our nature. We cannot change. Our greatness is that we know change is possible and the Torah is an agent of change.