The Shabbos Queen: A Match Made in Heaven

(8) Why did God bless Shabbat? Rabbi Berekiah says: "Because it has no partner. The first day of the week has the second, the third has the fourth, the fifth has the sixth, but Shabbat has no partner. Rabbi Samuel ben Nahman said: Because it cannot be postponed: a festival can be postponed, as well as the Day of Atonement [because these are days which a beit din must declare to be a new moon]. Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai taught: Shabbat pleased with the Holy One, Blessed be God saying: "Everyone else has a partner, but I have nothing!" God answered saying: "The community of Israel will be your partner." God continued: "And when thy stood before Sinai, God said to the Israelites: "Remember what I said to Shabbat, that the community of Israel is your partner, [in the words of scripture] "Remember Shabbat and keep it holy" (Exodus 20:8)...

(8) Remember the sabbath day and keep it holy.

Come, lover, to welcome the bride

The face of Shabbat we will receive

Come in peace, crown of her husband,

As well in joy and in jubilation,

The midst of the faithful precious nation,

Enter, bride! Enter, bride!

Rebbi asked R’Yishmael bar R’Yose: He said to him, ‘have you heard from your father what is the meaning of, and G-d finished on the seventh day? Is it possible that G-d worked on the seventh Day?

Geniva and the Rabbis present explanations. Geniva said: This is compared to a king who made for himself a wedding canopy (chuppah), and he decorated it and ornamented it. What then was it missing? A bride to enter into it! Similarly, what was the world missing? The Sabbath.

(1) Four things have been enjoined regarding the Sabbath: two on biblical authority, and two on the authority of the sages and clearly expressed by the Prophets. The Torah says: Remember (Exodus 20:8) and Observe (Deuteronomy 5:12); the Prophets clearly speak of Honor and Delight, as it is written: "Call the Sabbath a delight, and the Lord's sacred day an honor" (Isaiah 58:13).

(2) What is meant by honor? The sages explained this by declaring that each person should wash his face, hands and feet with hot water on Friday in honor of the Sabbath, and then enwrap himself in a fringed garment and be seated with dignity in expectation of the Sabbath, receiving it as if he were coming out to meet the king. The ancient sages used to assemble their disciples on Friday, put on their best clothes, and say: "Come, let us go out to meet King Sabbath."

The Sages recount that Shammai would always eat in honor of Shabbat. When he saw a fine animal he would say: “This is for Shabbat.” If he found an even better one, he would eat the first one and leave the better one for Shabbat (Beitza 16a). In other words, all week he would eat lower quality food, always saving the best for Shabbat. In this way, whenever he ate he honored Shabbat and considered how he could honor and sanctify it. Hillel possessed a different trait. All his actions were undertaken for the greater glory of God. He would make a point of honoring and sanctifying the weekdays as well as Shabbat, thus fulfilling the mandate to “Bless God every day” (Tehilim 68:20). Therefore, when good food came his way during the week he would eat it, trusting that just as God made sure he had good food during the week, He would make sure that he would have even better food for the holy Shabbat. Thus Hillel honored and valued each day (Rashi ad loc.; Ramban, Shemot 20:8).