(א) משֶׁה קִבֵּל תּוֹרָה מִסִּינַי, וּמְסָרָהּ לִיהוֹשֻׁעַ, וִיהוֹשֻׁעַ לִזְקֵנִים, וּזְקֵנִים לִנְבִיאִים, וּנְבִיאִים מְסָרוּהָ לְאַנְשֵׁי כְנֶסֶת הַגְּדוֹלָה. הֵם אָמְרוּ שְׁלשָׁה דְבָרִים, הֱווּ מְתוּנִים בַּדִּין, וְהַעֲמִידוּ תַלְמִידִים הַרְבֵּה, וַעֲשׂוּ סְיָג לַתּוֹרָה:
(1) Moses received the Torah at Sinai and transmitted it to Joshua, Joshua to the elders, and the elders to the prophets, and the prophets to the Men of the Great Assembly. They said three things: Be patient in [the administration of] justice, raise many disciples and make a fence round the Torah.
תּוֹרָה,
not hatorah, teaching that Moshe received not only the Chumash, but also all of Torah that exists.
קִבֵּל,then וּמְסָרָהּ
teaching that Moshe and the people in the desert made an explicit choice to accept the Torah, and then after that the transmission from person to person was almost inevitable.
הֱווּ מְתוּנִים בַּדִּין
literally be patient in justice, do not rush to conclusions, but consider all possibilities
וְהַעֲמִידוּ
stand up your students on their own two feet, so they can make conclusions for themselves
וַעֲשׂוּ סְיָג לַתּוֹרָה:
literally make a fence to the Torah, the fence is around the Torah but it also points towards the Torah to bring people closer to it, it helps protect people from transgressing it but it also does not push people away from it, but brings people closer
(ב) שִׁמְעוֹן הַצַּדִּיק הָיָה מִשְּׁיָרֵי כְנֶסֶת הַגְּדוֹלָה. הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, עַל שְׁלשָׁה דְבָרִים הָעוֹלָם עוֹמֵד, עַל הַתּוֹרָה וְעַל הָעֲבוֹדָה וְעַל גְּמִילוּת חֲסָדִים:
(2) Shimon the Righteous was one of the last of the men of the great assembly. He used to say: the world stands upon three things: the Torah, the Temple service, and the practice of acts of piety.
עַל הַתּוֹרָה
here haTorah is used, on three things the world stands, the Torah is the source of all the world and not only does the world stand on it, but the world was created for its purpose, without it we would not have our purpose in our world, so it is saying not only does the earth itself stand on it but our purpose on this world stands on it
וְעַל הָעֲבוֹדָה
on service, service to Hashem, and the service in the temple, keeping the mitzvot and serving Hashem in that way too
וְעַל גְּמִילוּת חֲסָדִים
these three things are tied together by Torah, gimilut chasidim represents mitzvot ben adam vchaveiro, haavodah represents mitzvot ben adam vmakom, haTorah encompasses both our service to Hashem and our responsibility to other human beings
(ג) אַנְטִיגְנוֹס אִישׁ סוֹכוֹ קִבֵּל מִשִּׁמְעוֹן הַצַּדִּיק. הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, אַל תִּהְיוּ כַעֲבָדִים הַמְשַׁמְּשִׁין אֶת הָרַב עַל מְנָת לְקַבֵּל פְּרָס, אֶלָּא הֱווּ כַעֲבָדִים הַמְשַׁמְּשִׁין אֶת הָרַב שֶׁלֹּא עַל מְנָת לְקַבֵּל פְּרָס, וִיהִי מוֹרָא שָׁמַיִם עֲלֵיכֶם:
(3) Antigonus a man of Socho received [the oral tradition] from Shimon the Righteous. He used to say: do not be like servants who serve the master in the expectation of receiving a reward, but be like servants who serve the master without the expectation of receiving a reward, and let the fear of Heaven be upon you.
כַעֲבָדִים
this comes from the world resting on avodah, hence us all being avadim, servants of Hashem. We are not just servants, but we are also engaged in service.
אַל תִּהְיוּ כַעֲבָדִים הַמְשַׁמְּשִׁין אֶת הָרַב עַל מְנָת לְקַבֵּל פְּרָס, אֶלָּא הֱווּ כַעֲבָדִים הַמְשַׁמְּשִׁין אֶת הָרַב שֶׁלֹּא עַל מְנָת לְקַבֵּל פְּרָס
serve Hashem out of love, not out of fear of what will happen if you don't keep the mitzvot
or to get a reward, keep the mitzvot as if there would be no reward, as if the reward is the closeness to Hashem itself, that you gain from doing the mitzvot, this is kind of teaching you HOW to love Hashem, it is saying that if you keep the mitzvot without trying for a reward than the love of Hashem will be stronger through these actions
וִיהִי מוֹרָא שָׁמַיִם עֲלֵיכֶם
but also do fear Hashem, have a healthy balance of ira and ahava . this part is less complicated though, because it is often easier to fear Hashem than it is to love Hashem. He does not really make it clear HOW to fear Hashem, as this much is obvious. But we still cannot go without fear, so he is giving us a bracha that we have this ira
(ד) יוֹסֵי בֶן יוֹעֶזֶר אִישׁ צְרֵדָה וְיוֹסֵי בֶן יוֹחָנָן אִישׁ יְרוּשָׁלַיִם קִבְּלוּ מֵהֶם. יוֹסֵי בֶן יוֹעֶזֶר אִישׁ צְרֵדָה אוֹמֵר, יְהִי בֵיתְךָ בֵית וַעַד לַחֲכָמִים, וֶהֱוֵי מִתְאַבֵּק בַּעֲפַר רַגְלֵיהֶם, וֶהֱוֵי שׁוֹתֶה בְצָמָא אֶת דִּבְרֵיהֶם:
(4) Yose ben Yoezer (a man) of Zeredah and Yose ben Yohanan [a man] of Jerusalem received [the oral tradition] from them [i.e. Shimon the Righteous and Antigonus]. Yose ben Yoezer used to say: let thy house be a house of meeting for the Sages and sit in the very dust of their feet, and drink in their words with thirst.
וֶהֱוֵי מִתְאַבֵּק בַּעֲפַר רַגְלֵיהֶם, וֶהֱוֵי שׁוֹתֶה בְצָמָא אֶת דִּבְרֵיהֶם
Let the dust of their feet make you thirsty for more Torah, the fact that you sit in their dust is what makes you crave more words, if you stray from a place where chachamim gather, you may grow apathetic to grow in your learning. Learning is best done around others, so we can grow together and learn from each other.
(ה) יוֹסֵי בֶן יוֹחָנָן אִישׁ יְרוּשָׁלַיִם אוֹמֵר, יְהִי בֵיתְךָ פָתוּחַ לִרְוָחָה, וְיִהְיוּ עֲנִיִּים בְּנֵי בֵיתֶךָ, וְאַל תַּרְבֶּה שִׂיחָה עִם הָאִשָּׁה. בְּאִשְׁתּוֹ אָמְרוּ, קַל וָחֹמֶר בְּאֵשֶׁת חֲבֵרוֹ. מִכָּאן אָמְרוּ חֲכָמִים, כָּל זְמַן שֶׁאָדָם מַרְבֶּה שִׂיחָה עִם הָאִשָּׁה, גּוֹרֵם רָעָה לְעַצְמוֹ, וּבוֹטֵל מִדִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה, וְסוֹפוֹ יוֹרֵשׁ גֵּיהִנֹּם:
(5) Yose ben Yochanan (a man) of Jerusalem used to say: Let thy house be wide open, and let the poor be members of thy household. Engage not in too much conversation with women. They said this with regard to one’s own wife, how much more [does the rule apply] with regard to another man’s wife. From here the Sages said: as long as a man engages in too much conversation with women, he causes evil to himself, he neglects the study of the Torah, and in the end he will inherit gehinnom.
וְאַל תַּרְבֶּה שִׂיחָה עִם הָאִשָּׁה
Be careful in your words, do not engage in talk such as lashon hara with women (or anyone for that matter) or words that might negate a woman’s worth, with your words make sure they are of worth such that they do not demean or hurt. This is especially important when someone is vulnerable in any way.
(ו) יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן פְּרַחְיָה וְנִתַּאי הָאַרְבֵּלִי קִבְּלוּ מֵהֶם. יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן פְּרַחְיָה אוֹמֵר, עֲשֵׂה לְךָ רַב, וּקְנֵה לְךָ חָבֵר, וֶהֱוֵי דָן אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם לְכַף זְכוּת:
(6) Joshua ben Perahiah and Nittai the Arbelite received [the oral tradition] from them. Joshua ben Perahiah used to say: appoint for thyself a teacher, and acquire for thyself a companion and judge all men with the scale weighted in his favor.
עֲשֵׂה לְךָ רַב
Create for yourself a teacher, literally make yourself a teacher, teaching and learning goes both ways and learning is a process where both people become improved by the process. The teacher becomes made into a teacher, the student becomes improved by the process as well by learning from the teacher.
וּקְנֵה לְךָ חָבֵר
A friend we do not have to make, but just to acquire. Good friends accept each other as they are.
וֶהֱוֵי דָן אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם לְכַף זְכוּת
“All of the man”, judge both all men and all of a person with the scales weighted towards the person’s favor.
(ז) נִתַּאי הָאַרְבֵּלִי אוֹמֵר, הַרְחֵק מִשָּׁכֵן רָע, וְאַל תִּתְחַבֵּר לָרָשָׁע, וְאַל תִּתְיָאֵשׁ מִן הַפֻּרְעָנוּת:
(7) Nittai the Arbelite used to say: keep a distance from an evil neighbor, do not become attached to the wicked, and do not abandon faith in [divine] retribution.
הַרְחֵק מִשָּׁכֵן רָע
Also keep far away from evil dwelling places. This seems interesting in terms of the previous wisdom about judging all men with the scales weighted in their favor. Perhaps the point is to warn us while we must judge all with the scales weighted in their favor, to not obscure our vision when someone has repeatedly done bad. Give the benefit of the doubt, but don’t be a fool.
וְאַל תִּתְיָאֵשׁ מִן הַפֻּרְעָנוּת
Just because one sees bad flourishing, doesn’t mean one should say “There is no justice”. This possibly goes back to judging all with the scales weighted in their favor. Even when we see people we perceive as bad flourishing, we can try to remember that they may have some good in them we do not see, but that Hashem sees.
(ח) יְהוּדָה בֶן טַבַּאי וְשִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן שָׁטָח קִבְּלוּ מֵהֶם. יְהוּדָה בֶן טַבַּאי אוֹמֵר, אַל תַּעַשׂ עַצְמְךָ כְעוֹרְכֵי הַדַּיָּנִין. וּכְשֶׁיִּהְיוּ בַעֲלֵי דִינִין עוֹמְדִים לְפָנֶיךָ, יִהְיוּ בְעֵינֶיךָ כִרְשָׁעִים. וּכְשֶׁנִּפְטָרִים מִלְּפָנֶיךָ, יִהְיוּ בְעֵינֶיךָ כְזַכָּאִין, כְּשֶׁקִּבְּלוּ עֲלֵיהֶם אֶת הַדִּין:
(8) Judah ben Tabbai and Shimon ben Shetach received [the oral tradition] from them. Judah ben Tabbai said: do not [as a judge] play the part of an advocate; and when the litigants are standing before you, look upon them as if they were [both] guilty; and when they leave your presence, look upon them as if they were [both] innocent, when they have accepted the judgement.
כְּשֶׁקִּבְּלוּ עֲלֵיהֶם אֶת הַדִּין
Accepting the judgment shows they have accepted their punishment, or whatever amends they have to make according to the law. Yes, they will have to live with the judgment, whatever that means, but do not continue to judge them after the fact. Question them during the proceedings to find out the truth, but do not allow your emotions to get the better of you after the fact.
(ט) שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן שָׁטָח אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי מַרְבֶּה לַחְקֹר אֶת הָעֵדִים, וֶהֱוֵי זָהִיר בִּדְבָרֶיךָ, שֶׁמָּא מִתּוֹכָם יִלְמְדוּ לְשַׁקֵּר:
(9) Shimon ben Shetach used to say: be thorough in the interrogation of witnesses, and be careful with your words, lest from them they learn to lie.
וֶהֱוֵי זָהִיר בִּדְבָרֶיךָ, שֶׁמָּא מִתּוֹכָם יִלְמְדוּ לְשַׁקֵּר
What we can learn to this outside of legal proceedings is that we should not ask people to reveal more than they might feel comfortable revealing, we should not ask people questions that might embarrass them or cause them to lie because they cannot reveal the truth to us.
(י) שְׁמַעְיָה וְאַבְטַלְיוֹן קִבְּלוּ מֵהֶם. שְׁמַעְיָה אוֹמֵר, אֱהֹב אֶת הַמְּלָאכָה, וּשְׂנָא אֶת הָרַבָּנוּת, וְאַל תִּתְוַדַּע לָרָשׁוּת:
(10) Shemaiah and Abtalion received [the oral tradition] from them. Shemaiah used to say: love work, hate acting the superior, and do not attempt to draw near to the ruling authority.
אֱהֹב אֶת הַמְּלָאכָה
Literally love melacha, love the process of building the mishkan, and keep Shabbat of course but love work throughout the rest of the week.
. וּשְׂנָא אֶת הָרַבָּנוּת
Hate our own ability to rule. Do not enjoy lording over other people, if you have to be in a position of power then carry out your duties to the best of your abilities but do not enjoy the power aspect of it.
וְאַל תִּתְוַדַּע לָרָשׁוּת
Keep a careful eye on those in power, lest they enjoy ruling over others too much and allow their power to get the better of them.
(יא) אַבְטַלְיוֹן אוֹמֵר, חֲכָמִים, הִזָּהֲרוּ בְדִבְרֵיכֶם, שֶׁמָּא תָחוּבוּ חוֹבַת גָּלוּת וְתִגְלוּ לִמְקוֹם מַיִם הָרָעִים, וְיִשְׁתּוּ הַתַּלְמִידִים הַבָּאִים אַחֲרֵיכֶם וְיָמוּתוּ, וְנִמְצָא שֵׁם שָׁמַיִם מִתְחַלֵּל:
(11) Abtalion used to say: Sages be careful with your words, lest you incur the penalty of exile, and be carried off to a place of evil waters, and the disciples who follow you drink and die, and thus the name of heaven becomes profaned.
חֲכָמִים, הִזָּהֲרוּ בְדִבְרֵיכֶם
When people look up to you, you have a special responsibility to be a kiddush Hashem, because your students will follow in your footsteps. This follows from the responsibility to follow in the dust of chachamim’s feet. If people are following in your dust, you have a responsibility to lead them to a place of Torah, not to a place of idolatry and other chillulei Hashem.
(יב) הִלֵּל וְשַׁמַּאי קִבְּלוּ מֵהֶם. הִלֵּל אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי מִתַּלְמִידָיו שֶׁל אַהֲרֹן, אוֹהֵב שָׁלוֹם וְרוֹדֵף שָׁלוֹם, אוֹהֵב אֶת הַבְּרִיּוֹת וּמְקָרְבָן לַתּוֹרָה:
(12) Hillel and Shammai received [the oral tradition] from them. Hillel used to say: be of the disciples of Aaron, loving peace and pursuing peace, loving mankind and drawing them close to the Torah.
מֵהֶם
Who is mihem? Who is them that they are speaking of? They received the Oral Tradition both from others, and from each other, because through learning Torah together and having debates, they were able to get to a closer understanding of Torah.
אוֹהֵב שָׁלוֹם וְרוֹדֵף שָׁלוֹם
It is not enough just to love peace, someone can enjoy a peaceful environment but without making peace between their peers, they are not pursuing peace.
אוֹהֵב אֶת הַבְּרִיּוֹת וּמְקָרְבָן לַתּוֹרָה
Again, loving is not enough. The way to bring this into action is by bringing people closer to Torah.
(יג) הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, נָגֵד שְׁמָא, אָבֵד שְׁמֵהּ. וּדְלֹא מוֹסִיף, יָסֵף. וּדְלֹא יָלֵיף, קְטָלָא חַיָּב. וּדְאִשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בְּתָגָא, חָלֵף:
(13) He [also] used to say: one who makes his name great causes his name to be destroyed; one who does not add [to his knowledge] causes [it] to cease; one who does not study [the Torah] deserves death; one who makes [unworthy] use of the crown [of learning] shall pass away.
נָגֵד שְׁמָא, אָבֵד שְׁמֵהּ
When we try to make our name great, when we are in a relentless pursuit for external greatness, we lose our conception of ourselves, and end up losing not only our reputation but also our knowledge of who we are.
וּדְלֹא מוֹסִיף, יָסֵף
Learning Torah is something we need to exercise, it is a skill that if we do not practice, we will lose it. Also, if we are not constantly striving for growth, we actually cease our process of growth.
וּדְלֹא יָלֵיף, קְטָלָא חַיָּב
One who does not teach Torah, if we completely learn Torah in its own bubble and do not bring our knowledge out into how we treat others, how we interact with the world, it is useless.
וּדְאִשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בְּתָגָא, חָלֵף
Do not learn simply for increasing your reputation, for making a name for yourself. Learn for love of Hashem, and for increasing the knowledge of Torah that exists in this world. If we only learn for external pleasures such as being known as a Torah scholar, and not for love of Hashem, this knowledge is useless.
(יד) הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, אִם אֵין אֲנִי לִי, מִי לִי. וּכְשֶׁאֲנִי לְעַצְמִי, מָה אֲנִי. וְאִם לֹא עַכְשָׁיו, אֵימָתָי:
(14) He [also] used to say: If I am not for myself, who is for me? But if I am for my own self [only], what am I? And if not now, when?
We first have to establish a foundation of self-love, but we cannot stop here. We have to share this love with others, and this is a pressing need because we do not know how long we will be around to do the things we need to do in this world. If we do not do things when they are most needed (*now*), who is to say we will do them later down the line? We can keep saying, “I’ll do this tomorrow,” but ultimately the best time to do things is when they are fresh in our mind.
(טו) שַׁמַּאי אוֹמֵר, עֲשֵׂה תוֹרָתְךָ קֶבַע. אֱמֹר מְעַט וַעֲשֵׂה הַרְבֵּה, וֶהֱוֵי מְקַבֵּל אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם בְּסֵבֶר פָּנִים יָפוֹת:
(15) Shammai used to say: make your [study of the] Torah a fixed practice; speak little, but do much; and receive all men with a pleasant countenance.
עֲשֵׂה תוֹרָתְךָ קֶבַע
Make your Torah a habit, both studying Torah and the way you bring Torah into this world by your actions. If you practice doing this regularly, it will become second nature to you.
אֱמֹר מְעַט וַעֲשֵׂה הַרְבֵּה
Do not rely on words to show the kind of person you are. Words are nice, but you have to put actions behind them, because actions are the true mark of a person.
וֶהֱוֵי מְקַבֵּל אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם בְּסֵבֶר פָּנִים יָפוֹת
Kol haadam, receive all of the person with a pleasant countenance. Understand people’s flaws, but still be open to receiving who they are with kindness and greet them as a full person.
(טז) רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל הָיָה אוֹמֵר, עֲשֵׂה לְךָ רַב, וְהִסְתַּלֵּק מִן הַסָּפֵק, וְאַל תַּרְבֶּה לְעַשֵּׂר אֹמָדוֹת:
(16) Rabban Gamaliel used to say: appoint for thyself a teacher, avoid doubt, and do not make a habit of tithing by guesswork.
עֲשֵׂה לְךָ רַב
When this phrase was mentioned earlier, it was in the context of “עֲשֵׂה לְךָ רַב, וּקְנֵה לְךָ חָבֵר, וֶהֱוֵי דָן אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם לְכַף זְכוּת” judging all men with the scale weighted in his favor. When we doubt others, we too become full of doubt. When we judge others with the scale weighted in their favor, we too become free of doubt. וְהִסְתַּלֵּק מִן הַסָּפֵק When we judge ourselves with the same scale we weigh other people with, we also can hold ourselves to accountability and not estimate our tithes, but rather carefully calculating it. וְאַל תַּרְבֶּה לְעַשֵּׂר אֹמָדוֹת
(יז) שִׁמְעוֹן בְּנוֹ אוֹמֵר, כָּל יָמַי גָּדַלְתִּי בֵין הַחֲכָמִים, וְלֹא מָצָאתִי לַגּוּף טוֹב אֶלָּא שְׁתִיקָה. וְלֹא הַמִּדְרָשׁ הוּא הָעִקָּר, אֶלָּא הַמַּעֲשֶׂה. וְכָל הַמַּרְבֶּה דְבָרִים, מֵבִיא חֵטְא:
(17) Shimon, his son, used to say: all my days I grew up among the sages, and I have found nothing better for a person than silence. Study is not the most important thing, but actions; whoever indulges in too many words brings about sin.
כָּל יָמַי גָּדַלְתִּי בֵין הַחֲכָמִים, וְלֹא מָצָאתִי לַגּוּף טוֹב אֶלָּא שְׁתִיקָה
Sometimes, there are no words to express the greatness that is Torah. This relates also to Shammai’s words, אֱמֹר מְעַט וַעֲשֵׂה הַרְבֵּה When we focus more on being great scholars, rather than kind to our fellow humans, we lose the ikar, we lose perspective. We forget that Hashem’s being cannot be summed up in words, but in the human there is always a spark of the divine. The words of the Torah are divine words, and studying them is meaningful, but in one single human there is a spark of Hashem, a pure spark of divinity. Connecting with humans on the level that allows us to acknowledge this spark is the real thing that study is supposed to help us realize we can do. If in our learning we lose this acknowledgement of other people’s sparks, we are missing the true meaning of Torah learning.
וְכָל הַמַּרְבֶּה דְבָרִים, מֵבִיא חֵטְא
When we talk too much, we often find ourselves swaying into forbidden categories of talk, such as lashon hara and talk that can harm other people. We should be very careful of our words to make sure that we are uplifting people, and that our words are indicative of what we have learned.
(יח) רַבָּן שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן גַּמְלִיאֵל אוֹמֵר, עַל שְׁלשָׁה דְבָרִים הָעוֹלָם עוֹמֵד, עַל הַדִּין וְעַל הָאֱמֶת וְעַל הַשָּׁלוֹם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (זכריה ח) אֱמֶת וּמִשְׁפַּט שָׁלוֹם שִׁפְטוּ בְּשַׁעֲרֵיכֶם:
(18) Rabban Shimon ben Gamaliel used to say: on three things does the world stand: On justice, on truth and on peace, as it is said: “execute the judgment of truth and peace in your gates” (Zechariah 8:16).
How do we get from מִשְׁפַּט to דִּין? Din is the way mishpat operates within the world. Mishpat is a greater divine characteristic, but in the world, this stands on din. This passage harkens back to the words of שִׁמְעוֹן הַצַּדִּיק mentioned earlier. עַל הַתּוֹרָה וְעַל הָעֲבוֹדָה וְעַל גְּמִילוּת חֲסָדִים. These can be analogous to the words of Raban Shimon Ben Gamliel. הַדִּין goes with הַתּוֹרָה, Torah is the law. הָאֱמֶת fits with הָעֲבוֹדָה, the service of Hashem must be performed with a true heart. And גְּמִילוּת חֲסָדִים fits with הַשָּׁלוֹם, as acts of kindness bring peace into a world that desperately needs it.
(א) רַבִּי אוֹמֵר, אֵיזוֹהִי דֶרֶךְ יְשָׁרָה שֶׁיָּבֹר לוֹ הָאָדָם, כֹּל שֶׁהִיא תִפְאֶרֶת לְעוֹשֶׂיהָ וְתִפְאֶרֶת לוֹ מִן הָאָדָם. וֶהֱוֵי זָהִיר בְּמִצְוָה קַלָּה כְבַחֲמוּרָה, שֶׁאֵין אַתָּה יוֹדֵעַ מַתַּן שְׂכָרָן שֶׁל מִצְוֹת. וֶהֱוֵי מְחַשֵּׁב הֶפְסֵד מִצְוָה כְּנֶגֶד שְׂכָרָהּ, וּשְׂכַר עֲבֵרָה כְנֶגֶד הֶפְסֵדָהּ. וְהִסְתַּכֵּל בִּשְׁלשָׁה דְבָרִים וְאִי אַתָּה בָא לִידֵי עֲבֵרָה, דַּע מַה לְּמַעְלָה מִמְּךָ, עַיִן רוֹאָה וְאֹזֶן שׁוֹמַעַת, וְכָל מַעֲשֶׂיךָ בַסֵּפֶר נִכְתָּבִין:
(1) Rabbi Said: which is the straight path that a man should choose for himself? One which is an honor to the person adopting it, and [on account of which] honor [accrues] to him from others. And be careful with a light commandment as with a grave one, for you did know not the reward for the fulfillment of the commandments. Also, reckon the loss [that may be sustained through the fulfillment] of a commandment against the reward [accruing] thereby, and the gain [that may be obtained through the committing] of a transgression against the loss [entailed] thereby. Apply your mind to three things and you will not come into the clutches of sin: Know what there is above you: an eye that sees, an ear that hears, and all your deeds are written in a book.
אֵיזוֹהִי דֶרֶךְ יְשָׁרָה שֶׁיָּבֹר לוֹ הָאָדָם, כֹּל שֶׁהִיא תִפְאֶרֶת לְעוֹשֶׂיהָ וְתִפְאֶרֶת לוֹ מִן הָאָדָם
If you are being dishonest in your dealings, this path does not bring glory to you. You have to both judge this from your own personal experience of what you believe is right, but also to recognize that sometimes you don’t know what is best, and accept mussar when someone tells you you are doing something wrong. You should be open to criticism, but also follow your own heart, and figure out what is the path that satisfies both others and yourself.
וֶהֱוֵי זָהִיר בְּמִצְוָה קַלָּה כְבַחֲמוּרָה, שֶׁאֵין אַתָּה יוֹדֵעַ מַתַּן שְׂכָרָן שֶׁל מִצְוֹת
Don’t just concern yourself with commandments that you find easy to accomplish, but also don’t ignore those commandments. Just because you find a mitzvah easier, doesn’t mean it’s not important, but also doesn’t mean it is the most important. We can all do better on our actions, even on mitzvot we find easy. Find ways to improve even the mitzvot that you find easy. But don’t ignore ones you find hard either.
וֶהֱוֵי מְחַשֵּׁב הֶפְסֵד מִצְוָה כְּנֶגֶד שְׂכָרָהּ, וּשְׂכַר עֲבֵרָה כְנֶגֶד הֶפְסֵדָהּ
This seems almost contradictory to the statement before it. How can we know what the rewards or punishments meted out by Hashem will be? This teaches us that no matter what earthly difficulties we have with doing mitzvot or gains we get from committing sins, even though we don’t know the exact reward and punishment for those things in the World to Come, we know that the rewards and punishments from G-d will be much greater than any earthly losses we have from committing mitzvot, or gains we have from not committing mitzvot, how much greater these will be in the World to Come. The reward for mitzvot is always greater than anything we could encounter in this world.
אַתָּה בָא לִידֵי עֲבֵרָה, דַּע מַה לְּמַעְלָה מִמְּךָ, עַיִן רוֹאָה וְאֹזֶן שׁוֹמַעַת, וְכָל מַעֲשֶׂיךָ בַסֵּפֶר נִכְתָּבִין:
Why is the fact that Hashem hears and sees recorded separately? Surely if Hashem sees all our actions, He also hears the words we say. This is to remind us that even our thoughts are known by Hashem. He hears all our thoughts, not just the ones we express into an action of speaking. He knows our intentions, and hears our prayers even when they are unspoken. We can call out to Hashem even with our thoughts, and this can help us to not commit aveirot, because we know there is someone out there who is concerned even with our wordless prayers.
(ב) רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל בְּנוֹ שֶׁל רַבִּי יְהוּדָה הַנָּשִׂיא אוֹמֵר, יָפֶה תַלְמוּד תּוֹרָה עִם דֶּרֶךְ אֶרֶץ, שֶׁיְּגִיעַת שְׁנֵיהֶם מְשַׁכַּחַת עָוֹן. וְכָל תּוֹרָה שֶׁאֵין עִמָּהּ מְלָאכָה, סוֹפָהּ בְּטֵלָה וְגוֹרֶרֶת עָוֹן. וְכָל הָעֲמֵלִים עִם הַצִּבּוּר, יִהְיוּ עֲמֵלִים עִמָּהֶם לְשֵׁם שָׁמַיִם, שֶׁזְּכוּת אֲבוֹתָם מְסַיַּעְתָּן וְצִדְקָתָם עוֹמֶדֶת לָעַד. וְאַתֶּם, מַעֲלֶה אֲנִי עֲלֵיכֶם שָׂכָר הַרְבֵּה כְּאִלּוּ עֲשִׂיתֶם:
(2) Rabban Gamaliel the son of Rabbi Judah Hanasi said: excellent is the study of the Torah when combined with a worldly occupation, for toil in them both keeps sin out of one’s mind; But [study of the] Torah which is not combined with a worldly occupation, in the end comes to be neglected and becomes the cause of sin. And all who labor with the community, should labor with them for the sake Heaven, for the merit of their forefathers sustains them (the community), and their (the forefather’s) righteousness endures for ever; And as for you, [God in such case says] I credit you with a rich reward, as if you [yourselves] had [actually] accomplished [it all].
We cannot just count on Hashem to take care of us. We can know that all things happen with Hashem’s help, but we also have to make a path for ourselves, to concern ourselves with improving ourselves through work and through making a living for ourselves. We cannot just say “Hashem will take care of everything, I don’t need to do anything.” It is a two person endeavor. We do what we can, and Hashem makes everything work out how it should. But we also should do our work with an eye on bringing Torah into the world, everything can be a way of doing this, we should do our work with justice and honesty. G-d will give our reward for our part, even though none of this would be possible without Hashem Himself.
(ג) הֱווּ זְהִירִין בָּרָשׁוּת, שֶׁאֵין מְקָרְבִין לוֹ לָאָדָם אֶלָּא לְצֹרֶךְ עַצְמָן. נִרְאִין כְּאוֹהֲבִין בִּשְׁעַת הֲנָאָתָן, וְאֵין עוֹמְדִין לוֹ לָאָדָם בִּשְׁעַת דָּחְקוֹ:
(3) Be careful [in your dealings] with the ruling authorities for they do not befriend a person except for their own needs; they seem like friends when it is to their own interest, but they do not stand by a man in the hour of his distress.
In your dealings with your work for a living, you might find yourself interested in creating alliances with ruling authorities. Be very careful with this, as positions of power often lead people to act in ways that harm others. This is contrasting how Hashem deals with authority. While Hashem stands by people in the hour of their distress, for humans authority often causes a ruling person to leave a person in the hour of their distress. While Hashem draws close to us for our own benefit, an earthly ruling person might do so only for their own benefit.
(ד) הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, עֲשֵׂה רְצוֹנוֹ כִרְצוֹנְךָ, כְּדֵי שֶׁיַּעֲשֶׂה רְצוֹנְךָ כִרְצוֹנוֹ. בַּטֵּל רְצוֹנְךָ מִפְּנֵי רְצוֹנוֹ, כְּדֵי שֶׁיְּבַטֵּל רְצוֹן אֲחֵרִים מִפְּנֵי רְצוֹנֶךָ. הִלֵּל אוֹמֵר, אַל תִּפְרֹשׁ מִן הַצִּבּוּר, וְאַל תַּאֲמִין בְּעַצְמְךָ עַד יוֹם מוֹתְךָ, וְאַל תָּדִין אֶת חֲבֵרְךָ עַד שֶׁתַּגִּיעַ לִמְקוֹמוֹ, וְאַל תֹּאמַר דָּבָר שֶׁאִי אֶפְשָׁר לִשְׁמֹעַ, שֶׁסּוֹפוֹ לְהִשָּׁמַע. וְאַל תֹּאמַר לִכְשֶׁאִפָּנֶה אֶשְׁנֶה, שֶׁמָּא לֹא תִפָּנֶה:
(4) He used to say: do His will as though it were your will, so that He will do your will as though it were His. Set aside your will in the face of His will, so that he may set aside the will of others for the sake of your will. Hillel said: do not separate yourself from the community, Do not trust in yourself until the day of your death, Do not judge your fellow man until you have reached his place. Do not say something that cannot be understood [trusting] that in the end it will be understood. Say not: ‘when I shall have leisure I shall study;’ perhaps you will not have leisure.
This aligns with what is mentioned before. We should be more like Hashem, we should strive to figure out His will and to do it as if it were ours.
בַּטֵּל רְצוֹנְךָ מִפְּנֵי רְצוֹנוֹ, כְּדֵי שֶׁיְּבַטֵּל רְצוֹן אֲחֵרִים מִפְּנֵי רְצוֹנֶךָ
What does this mean? What are the other kinds of wills of others that Hashem will set aside if we set aside our will? This, to me, means that if we strive to see others in a positive light, to not wish harm upon others, Hashem will make other people’s negative plans for us go astray. Basically, if we wish good upon others, Hashem will allow good to happen to us.
הִלֵּל אוֹמֵר, אַל תִּפְרֹשׁ מִן הַצִּבּוּר, וְאַל תַּאֲמִין בְּעַצְמְךָ עַד יוֹם מוֹתְךָ, וְאַל תָּדִין אֶת חֲבֵרְךָ עַד שֶׁתַּגִּיעַ לִמְקוֹמוֹ
Do not separate yourself from the tzibbur. Do not treat yourself as something different than others in your thoughts. Do not think, “Well, I don’t do this, and other people in my community do, so therefore I am better than them.” This connects to the next line. We do not know the rewards and punishments for our actions until after our death. Read this as do not believe in yourself until after your death, as we do not wake up knowing a day will be the day of our death. We do not know which actions carry what reward, and what actions carry what punishment until after our death. This is connected to not separating ourselves from the community. We might think we’re more careful in our mitzvot than others, but other people might be more careful in a mitzvah that we have left aside, and we do not know what mitzvot will carry what rewards until after our death. This connects to וְאַל תָּדִין אֶת חֲבֵרְךָ עַד שֶׁתַּגִּיעַ לִמְקוֹמוֹ, not judging your fellow until you have been in his place.
אַל תֹּאמַר דָּבָר שֶׁאִי אֶפְשָׁר לִשְׁמֹעַ, שֶׁסּוֹפוֹ לְהִשָּׁמַע
Don’t live your life assuming that other people will know from your actions that you care about them. You have to also express your caring in words. Do not wait until it is too late to say something that you really wanted to say to someone to say it.
וְאַל תֹּאמַר לִכְשֶׁאִפָּנֶה אֶשְׁנֶה, שֶׁמָּא לֹא תִפָּנֶה:
Make room even in a busy schedule for Torah study. Find ways to work your schedule around, to open up time to learn, as you may not ever feel you have time if you put off learning until you have more time. Prioritize your Torah study, for it is precious.
(ה) הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, אֵין בּוּר יְרֵא חֵטְא, וְלֹא עַם הָאָרֶץ חָסִיד, וְלֹא הַבַּיְשָׁן לָמֵד, וְלֹא הַקַּפְּדָן מְלַמֵּד, וְלֹא כָל הַמַּרְבֶּה בִסְחוֹרָה מַחְכִּים. וּבְמָקוֹם שֶׁאֵין אֲנָשִׁים, הִשְׁתַּדֵּל לִהְיוֹת אִישׁ:
(5) He used to say: A brute is not sin-fearing, nor is an ignorant person pious; nor can a timid person learn, nor can an impatient person teach; nor will someone who engages too much in business become wise. In a place where there are no men, strive to be a man.
This describes levels of self-improvement. First we have to fear sin, because for those who do not have the other qualities, this can motivate them to change. Then we have to develop piousness. Then we have to ask questions, to be able to learn. Then, if we want to be able to teach, we have to develop patience for others’ questions. To become wise, we have to find a place for regular Torah study, even within a busy schedule.
וּבְמָקוֹם שֶׁאֵין אֲנָשִׁים, הִשְׁתַּדֵּל לִהְיוֹת אִישׁ
We should strive to be a well-rounded person, being a mentch. Being a kind and learned person both, as well as taking responsibility in our work.
(ו) אַף הוּא רָאָה גֻלְגֹּלֶת אַחַת שֶׁצָּפָה עַל פְּנֵי הַמַּיִם. אָמַר לָהּ, עַל דַּאֲטֵפְתְּ, אַטְפוּךְ. וְסוֹף מְטִיפַיִךְ יְטוּפוּן:
(6) Moreover he saw a skull floating on the face of the water. He said to it: because you drowned others, they drowned you. And in the end, they that drowned you will be drowned.
Spiritually, the kind of punishment that will be meted out to us by Hashem will fit the punishment. Perhaps if we intentionally made others feel weak and vulnerable, we will be made to feel weak and vulnerable at some point. Even if it’s not a one-on-one parallel, drowning for drowning, we tend to met out pain to others, mimicking some insecurity on the part of ourselves. In drowning others, we spiritually become the drowned.
(ז) הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, מַרְבֶּה בָשָׂר, מַרְבֶּה רִמָּה. מַרְבֶּה נְכָסִים, מַרְבֶּה דְאָגָה. מַרְבֶּה נָשִׁים, מַרְבֶּה כְשָׁפִים. מַרְבֶּה שְׁפָחוֹת, מַרְבֶּה זִמָּה. מַרְבֶּה עֲבָדִים, מַרְבֶּה גָזֵל. מַרְבֶּה תוֹרָה, מַרְבֶּה חַיִּים. מַרְבֶּה יְשִׁיבָה, מַרְבֶּה חָכְמָה. מַרְבֶּה עֵצָה, מַרְבֶּה תְבוּנָה. מַרְבֶּה צְדָקָה, מַרְבֶּה שָׁלוֹם. קָנָה שֵׁם טוֹב, קָנָה לְעַצְמוֹ. קָנָה לוֹ דִבְרֵי תוֹרָה, קָנָה לוֹ חַיֵּי הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא:
(7) He used to say: The more flesh, the more worms; The more property, the more anxiety; The more wives, the more witchcraft; The more female slaves, the more lewdness; The more slaves, the more robbery; [But] the more Torah, the more life; The more sitting [in the company of scholars], the more wisdom; The more counsel, the more understanding; The more charity, the more peace. If one acquires a good name, he has acquired something for himself; If one acquires for himself knowledge of Torah, he has acquired life in the world to come.
מַרְבֶּה בָשָׂר, מַרְבֶּה רִמָּה. מַרְבֶּה נְכָסִים, מַרְבֶּה דְאָגָה. מַרְבֶּה נָשִׁים, מַרְבֶּה כְשָׁפִים. מַרְבֶּה שְׁפָחוֹת, מַרְבֶּה זִמָּה. מַרְבֶּה עֲבָדִים, מַרְבֶּה גָזֵל. מַרְבֶּה תוֹרָה, מַרְבֶּה חַיִּים
Achieving wealth may bring problems we didn’t account for, but the ways of the Torah are ways of peace and life. Specifically, it talks about other people, having multiple wives, having multiple female slaves, having multiple male slaves. Other people, especially when they are treated as lesser, often have reason to backstab a person, and may have their own intentions contrary to a person’s intentions. Hashem, however, always sees what is best for us, and following the Torah is a way of following Hashem’s will for us in this world, not other people’s wills for us.
מַרְבֶּה יְשִׁיבָה, מַרְבֶּה חָכְמָה. מַרְבֶּה עֵצָה, מַרְבֶּה תְבוּנָה. מַרְבֶּה צְדָקָה, מַרְבֶּה שָׁלוֹם. קָנָה שֵׁם טוֹב, קָנָה לְעַצְמוֹ. קָנָה לוֹ דִבְרֵי תוֹרָה, קָנָה לוֹ חַיֵּי הָעוֹלָם הַבָּא
Trying to elucidate points of Torah, learning with learned people, and tzedakah bring much more lasting good to one’s life, because these things will still be accessible and matter in the world to come. Things of this life are fleeting, they give us something that might be pleasant in this world. Something like a good name might even be meaningful and a good thing to have in this world, and not a bad thing to seek out, but greater things associated with Torah and Hashem are something we will receive the rewards of still in the World to Come.
(ח) רַבָּן יוֹחָנָן בֶּן זַכַּאי קִבֵּל מֵהִלֵּל וּמִשַּׁמָּאי. הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, אִם לָמַדְתָּ תוֹרָה הַרְבֵּה, אַל תַּחֲזִיק טוֹבָה לְעַצְמְךָ, כִּי לְכָךְ נוֹצָרְתָּ. חֲמִשָּׁה תַלְמִידִים הָיוּ לוֹ לְרַבָּן יוֹחָנָן בֶּן זַכַּאי, וְאֵלּוּ הֵן, רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן הוֹרְקְנוֹס, וְרַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן חֲנַנְיָה, וְרַבִּי יוֹסֵי הַכֹּהֵן, וְרַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן נְתַנְאֵל, וְרַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ. הוּא הָיָה מוֹנֶה שִׁבְחָן. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן הוֹרְקְנוֹס, בּוֹר סוּד שֶׁאֵינוֹ מְאַבֵּד טִפָּה. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן חֲנַנְיָה, אַשְׁרֵי יוֹלַדְתּוֹ. רַבִּי יוֹסֵי הַכֹּהֵן, חָסִיד. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן נְתַנְאֵל, יְרֵא חֵטְא. וְרַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ, מַעְיָן הַמִּתְגַּבֵּר. הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, אִם יִהְיוּ כָל חַכְמֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל בְּכַף מֹאזְנַיִם, וֶאֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן הוֹרְקְנוֹס בְּכַף שְׁנִיָּה, מַכְרִיעַ אֶת כֻּלָּם. אַבָּא שָׁאוּל אוֹמֵר מִשְּׁמוֹ, אִם יִהְיוּ כָל חַכְמֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל בְּכַף מֹאזְנַיִם וְרַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר בֶּן הוֹרְקְנוֹס אַף עִמָּהֶם, וְרַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ בְּכַף שְׁנִיָּה, מַכְרִיעַ אֶת כֻּלָּם:
(8) Rabban Yohanan ben Zakkai received [the oral tradition] from Hillel and Shammai.He used to say: if you have learned much Torah, do not claim credit for yourself, because for such a purpose were you created. Rabban Yohanan ben Zakkai had five disciples and they were these: Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus, Rabbi Joshua ben Hananiah, Rabbi Yose, the priest, Rabbi Shimon ben Nethaneel and Rabbi Eleazar ben Arach. He [Rabbi Johanan] used to list their outstanding virtues: Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus is a plastered cistern which loses not a drop; Rabbi Joshua ben Hananiah happy is the woman that gave birth to him; Rabbi Yose, the priest, is a pious man; Rabbi Simeon ben Nethaneel is one that fears sin, And Rabbi Eleazar ben Arach is like a spring that [ever] gathers force. He [Rabbi Yohanan] used to say: if all the sages of Israel were on one scale of the balance and Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus on the other scale, he would outweigh them all. Abba Shaul said in his name: if all the sages of Israel were on one scale of the balance, and Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus also with them, and Rabbi Eleazar ben Arach on the other scale, he would outweigh them all.
אִם לָמַדְתָּ תוֹרָה הַרְבֵּה, אַל תַּחֲזִיק טוֹבָה לְעַצְמְךָ, כִּי לְכָךְ נוֹצָרְתָּ
Hashem creates some people with the ability to learn lots of Torah, so the ability to learn is a gift from Hashem like any other gift in this world. The credit for creating a person that is capable of learning goes to Hashem. The ability to make connections is from the one who created us with these abilities. Yes, a person puts effort into studying Torah, but the ability to learn is from Hashem.
Rabbi Elazar ben Arach is described as a spring gaining force, and Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus described as a cistern that loses no drops. These both have to do with water, Rabbi Eliezer ben Hyrcanus’s memory being praised as well as Rabbi Eleazar ben Arach’s ability to be innovative with Torah being praised. This teaches that we need both those who are knowledgeable on a level of knowing a lot of texts, as well as those who are able to make connections that others wouldn’t see. We need both innovators and conservatives who stick to the texts. Perhaps the water is held like in a cistern when it is necessary to hold water for preservation, but when it needs to be distributed to everyone, the fountain is necessary as well. This teaches balance.
(ט) אָמַר לָהֶם, צְאוּ וּרְאוּ אֵיזוֹהִי דֶרֶךְ יְשָׁרָה שֶׁיִּדְבַּק בָּהּ הָאָדָם. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר אוֹמֵר, עַיִן טוֹבָה. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ אוֹמֵר, חָבֵר טוֹב. רַבִּי יוֹסֵי אוֹמֵר, שָׁכֵן טוֹב. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר, הָרוֹאֶה אֶת הַנּוֹלָד. רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר אוֹמֵר, לֵב טוֹב. אָמַר לָהֶם, רוֹאֶה אֲנִי אֶת דִּבְרֵי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ מִדִּבְרֵיכֶם, שֶׁבִּכְלָל דְּבָרָיו דִּבְרֵיכֶם. אָמַר לָהֶם צְאוּ וּרְאוּ אֵיזוֹהִי דֶרֶךְ רָעָה שֶׁיִּתְרַחֵק מִמֶּנָּה הָאָדָם. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר אוֹמֵר, עַיִן רָעָה. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ אוֹמֵר, חָבֵר רָע. רַבִּי יוֹסֵי אוֹמֵר, שָׁכֵן רָע. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר, הַלֹּוֶה וְאֵינוֹ מְשַׁלֵּם. אֶחָד הַלֹּוֶה מִן הָאָדָם, כְּלֹוֶה מִן הַמָּקוֹם בָּרוּךְ הוּא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים לז) לֹוֶה רָשָׁע וְלֹא יְשַׁלֵּם, וְצַדִּיק חוֹנֵן וְנוֹתֵן. רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר אוֹמֵר, לֵב רָע. אָמַר לָהֶם, רוֹאֶה אֲנִי אֶת דִּבְרֵי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ מִדִּבְרֵיכֶם, שֶׁבִּכְלָל דְּבָרָיו דִּבְרֵיכֶם:
(9) He [Rabban Yohanan] said unto them: go forth and observe which is the right way to which a man should cleave? Rabbi Eliezer said, a good eye; Rabbi Joshua said, a good companion; Rabbi Yose said, a good neighbor; Rabbi Shimon said, foresight. Rabbi Elazar said, a good heart. He [Rabban Yohanan] said to them: I prefer the words of Elazar ben Arach, for in his words your words are included. He [Rabban Yohanan] said unto them: go forth and observe which is the evil way which a man should shun? Rabbi Eliezer said, an evil eye; Rabbi Joshua said, an evil companion; Rabbi Yose said, an evil neighbor; Rabbi Shimon said, one who borrows and does not repay for he that borrows from man is as one who borrows from God, blessed be He, as it is said, “the wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous deal graciously and give” (Psalms 37:21). Rabbi Elazar said, an evil heart. He [Rabban Yohanan] said to them: I prefer the words of Elazar ben Arach, for in his words your words are included.
Rabbi Shimon’s words are the only words that are not directly the inverse of the other, but they do fit, as one who borrows and does not repay did not have the foresight to know he wouldn’t be able to pay, or perhaps he did have this foresight and ignored it. Why does Rabban Yochanan prefer Rabbi Eleazar ben Arach’s answers? Someone with a good heart will look at people with a kind perspective (a good eye), will be able to choose good companions and be a good friend to them, will seek out good neighbors, and will be able to see what will be the results of his actions for good or bad.
(י) הֵם אָמְרוּ שְׁלשָׁה דְבָרִים. רַבִּי אֱלִיעֶזֶר אוֹמֵר, יְהִי כְבוֹד חֲבֵרְךָ חָבִיב עָלֶיךָ כְּשֶׁלָּךְ, וְאַל תְּהִי נוֹחַ לִכְעֹס. וְשׁוּב יוֹם אֶחָד לִפְנֵי מִיתָתְךָ. וֶהֱוֵי מִתְחַמֵּם כְּנֶגֶד אוּרָן שֶׁל חֲכָמִים, וֶהֱוֵי זָהִיר בְּגַחַלְתָּן שֶׁלֹּא תִכָּוֶה, שֶׁנְּשִׁיכָתָן נְשִׁיכַת שׁוּעָל, וַעֲקִיצָתָן עֲקִיצַת עַקְרָב, וּלְחִישָׁתָן לְחִישַׁת שָׂרָף, וְכָל דִּבְרֵיהֶם כְּגַחֲלֵי אֵשׁ:
(10) They [each] said three things: Rabbi Eliezer said: Let the honor of your friend be as dear to you as your own; And be not easily provoked to anger; And repent one day before your death. And [he also said:] warm yourself before the fire of the wise, but beware of being singed by their glowing coals, for their bite is the bite of a fox, and their sting is the sting of a scorpion, and their hiss is the hiss of a serpent, and all their words are like coals of fire.
יְהִי כְבוֹד חֲבֵרְךָ חָבִיב עָלֶיךָ כְּשֶׁלָּךְ
Do not embarrass someone, as you would not wish to be embarrassed. Consider your friend’s honor in your words, lest you say something that might unintentionally embarrass them. Be careful as you would wish someone to be careful when treading around topics that might be embarrassing for you.
וֶהֱוֵי מִתְחַמֵּם כְּנֶגֶד אוּרָן שֶׁל חֲכָמִים, וֶהֱוֵי זָהִיר בְּגַחַלְתָּן שֶׁלֹּא תִכָּוֶה, שֶׁנְּשִׁיכָתָן נְשִׁיכַת שׁוּעָל, וַעֲקִיצָתָן עֲקִיצַת עַקְרָב, וּלְחִישָׁתָן לְחִישַׁת שָׂרָף, וְכָל דִּבְרֵיהֶם כְּגַחֲלֵי אֵשׁ:
Torah scholars might provide mussar for you that is hard to hear. You might learn you are doing something wrong, and feel badly about this. Though this bite might be hard to hear, it can also inspire you to do better.
(יא) רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ אוֹמֵר, עַיִן הָרָע, וְיֵצֶר הָרָע, וְשִׂנְאַת הַבְּרִיּוֹת, מוֹצִיאִין אֶת הָאָדָם מִן הָעוֹלָם:
(11) Rabbi Joshua said: an evil eye, the evil inclination, and hatred for humankind put a person out of the world.
מוֹצִיאִין אֶת הָאָדָם מִן הָעוֹלָם
These things can take you out of reality, in that they can inspire you to see things very differently than they actually are. Hatred for your fellow human beings might cause you to assume the worst in a situation where things are different than your original assumption. In doing so, they take a person out of this world, as in the reality of the world as it actually is.
(יב) רַבִּי יוֹסֵי אוֹמֵר, יְהִי מָמוֹן חֲבֵרְךָ חָבִיב עָלֶיךָ כְּשֶׁלָּךְ, וְהַתְקֵן עַצְמְךָ לִלְמֹד תּוֹרָה, שֶׁאֵינָהּ יְרֻשָּׁה לָךְ. וְכָל מַעֲשֶׂיךָ יִהְיוּ לְשֵׁם שָׁמָיִם:
(12) Rabbi Yose said: Let the property of your fellow be as precious unto you as your own; Make yourself fit to study Torah for it will not be yours by inheritance; And let all your actions be for [the sake of] the name of heaven.
If you borrow something, be careful with it, as you would with your own possessions. You would not wish someone to envy your possessions, so be careful with not envying others’ possessions.
רַבִּי יוֹסֵי אוֹמֵר, יְהִי מָמוֹן חֲבֵרְךָ חָבִיב עָלֶיךָ כְּשֶׁלָּךְ, וְהַתְקֵן עַצְמְךָ לִלְמֹד תּוֹרָה, שֶׁאֵינָהּ יְרֻשָּׁה לָךְ. וְכָל מַעֲשֶׂיךָ יִהְיוּ לְשֵׁם שָׁמָיִם
This relates to the previous statement, as the Torah is in some ways like a possession we need to treat as our own, though it is not our inheritance automatically. It comes from Hashem, and we need to treat it as dearly as our own possessions, be careful with it, and guard it. In doing so, we will do things leshem shamayim.
(יג) רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי זָהִיר בִּקְרִיאַת שְׁמַע וּבַתְּפִלָּה. וּכְשֶׁאַתָּה מִתְפַּלֵּל, אַל תַּעַשׂ תְּפִלָּתְךָ קֶבַע, אֶלָּא רַחֲמִים וְתַחֲנוּנִים לִפְנֵי הַמָּקוֹם בָּרוּךְ הוּא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (יואל ב) כִּי חַנּוּן וְרַחוּם הוּא אֶרֶךְ אַפַּיִם וְרַב חֶסֶד וְנִחָם עַל הָרָעָה. וְאַל תְּהִי רָשָׁע בִּפְנֵי עַצְמְךָ:
(13) Rabbi Shimon said: Be careful with the reading of Shema and the prayer, And when you pray, do not make your prayer something automatic, but a plea for compassion before God, for it is said: “for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger, abounding in kindness, and renouncing punishment” (Joel 2:13); And be not wicked in your own esteem.
Strive for a balance between doing things within the letter of the law, but also having the proper intentions. Say the words in a timely manner, but do not rush. Do not put off the recitation of the Shema and Amidah to the last minute, such that you will say them so quickly that you will not have the proper kavanah. Make sure you give yourself time to recite them with intention, so that they are said as a plea to Hashem.
. וְאַל תְּהִי רָשָׁע בִּפְנֵי עַצְמְךָ
Understand that we are all looking for balance, all striving in a balance between intention and saying the proper words on time. Be careful in these endeavors, but also see the ways you are striving to meet Hashem’s will, not just ways you might be falling short.
(יד) רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי שָׁקוּד לִלְמֹד תּוֹרָה, וְדַע מַה שֶּׁתָּשִׁיב לְאֶפִּיקוֹרוֹס. וְדַע לִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָמֵל. וְנֶאֱמָן הוּא בַעַל מְלַאכְתְּךָ שֶׁיְּשַׁלֶּם לָךְ שְׂכַר פְּעֻלָּתֶךְ:
(14) Rabbi Elazar said: Be diligent in the study of the Torah; And know how to answer an epicuros, And know before whom you toil, and that your employer is faithful, for He will pay you the reward of your labor.
הֱוֵי שָׁקוּד לִלְמֹד תּוֹרָה, וְדַע מַה שֶּׁתָּשִׁיב לְאֶפִּיקוֹרוֹס
If you are learned but also wise, you will have the words to say to an apikorus not only to counter his points, but not to alienate him further from Judaism. You will be able to answer him both with accuracy and intelligence, but also with a way to potentially inspire him to draw closer again, to do teshuva (same root as tashiv)
דַע לִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָמֵל. וְנֶאֱמָן הוּא בַעַל מְלַאכְתְּךָ שֶׁיְּשַׁלֶּם לָךְ שְׂכַר פְּעֻלָּתֶךְ
Know before whom you toil, in your spiritual labor. There are kinds of work that we may receive rewards from other people for, even spiritual work such as people looking up to us, but ultimately the person we should be engaging in all these actions to please should be Hashem. His seeing our behavior as good is the ultimate goal of everything, and He is the one who will give us our true reward for our Torah study and good deeds.
(טו) רַבִּי טַרְפוֹן אוֹמֵר, הַיּוֹם קָצָר וְהַמְּלָאכָה מְרֻבָּה, וְהַפּוֹעֲלִים עֲצֵלִים, וְהַשָּׂכָר הַרְבֵּה, וּבַעַל הַבַּיִת דּוֹחֵק:
(15) Rabbi Tarfon said: the day is short, and the work is plentiful, and the laborers are indolent, and the reward is great, and the master of the house is insistent.
We cannot rely on other people to do work we might see is needing to be accomplished. If someone is in need, there is a good chance other people will put off helping them, especially if everyone is thinking "Someone else will help them." We have to try not to be lazy, with all kinds of things we see needing to be accomplished, because we cannot rely on someone else to accomplish what we see needing to be done. The task is very great, but we cannot use that as a reason not to make the progress we are able to do on it. The reward for working in these matters will be very great.
(טז) הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, לֹא עָלֶיךָ הַמְּלָאכָה לִגְמֹר, וְלֹא אַתָּה בֶן חוֹרִין לִבָּטֵל מִמֶּנָּה. אִם לָמַדְתָּ תוֹרָה הַרְבֵּה, נוֹתְנִים לְךָ שָׂכָר הַרְבֵּה. וְנֶאֱמָן הוּא בַעַל מְלַאכְתְּךָ שֶׁיְּשַׁלֵּם לְךָ שְׂכַר פְּעֻלָּתֶךָ. וְדַע מַתַּן שְׂכָרָן שֶׁל צַדִּיקִים לֶעָתִיד לָבֹא:
(16) He [Rabbi Tarfon] used to say: It is not your duty to finish the work, but neither are you at liberty to neglect it; If you have studied much Torah, you shall be given much reward. Faithful is your employer to pay you the reward of your labor; And know that the grant of reward unto the righteous is in the age to come.
This relates to the previous statement. The task may seem unmanageable, the time may seem too short to get anything done. However, while it is not our task to complete the work, this should not stop us from doing anything. Our task is to be a light unto the nations, to repair the world. This may seem like such a great task that we feel hopeless, but we should not be hopeless but should strive to do what we can.
אִם לָמַדְתָּ תוֹרָה הַרְבֵּה, נוֹתְנִים לְךָ שָׂכָר הַרְבֵּה.
The fruits of studying Torah can sometimes be seen even in this world, as some of the benefit comes from just studying it ourselves, and how this draws us closer to Hashem.
וְדַע מַתַּן שְׂכָרָן שֶׁל צַדִּיקִים לֶעָתִיד לָבֹא:
However, the true reward of being a tzadik will not come until the World to Come, so if we feel we do not see it yet, we should have faith it will come.
We have to see the greater picture and study Torah and do mitzvot for the sake of Hashem, however, not rewards we might gain either in this world or in the World to Come.
(א) עֲקַבְיָא בֶן מַהֲלַלְאֵל אוֹמֵר, הִסְתַּכֵּל בִּשְׁלשָׁה דְבָרִים וְאִי אַתָּה בָא לִידֵי עֲבֵרָה. דַּע מֵאַיִן בָּאתָ, וּלְאָן אַתָּה הוֹלֵךְ, וְלִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָתִיד לִתֵּן דִּין וְחֶשְׁבּוֹן. מֵאַיִן בָּאתָ, מִטִּפָּה סְרוּחָה, וּלְאָן אַתָּה הוֹלֵךְ, לִמְקוֹם עָפָר רִמָּה וְתוֹלֵעָה. וְלִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָתִיד לִתֵּן דִּין וְחֶשְׁבּוֹן, לִפְנֵי מֶלֶךְ מַלְכֵי הַמְּלָכִים הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא:
(1) Akabyah ben Mahalalel said: mark well three things and you will not come into the power of sin: Know from where you come, and where you are going, and before whom you are destined to give an account and reckoning. From where do you come? From a putrid drop. Where are you going? To a place of dust, of worm and of maggot. Before whom you are destined to give an account and reckoning? Before the King of the kings of kings, the Holy One, blessed be he.
Though we come from a putrid drop, and will go to a place of dust, worms, and maggots, Hashem still concerns Himself with our deeds. Our deeds still matter, our actions on this Earth still matter - in fact, we will be called to give an accounting of them before Hakadosh Baruch Hu. This strikes the balance of “The entire world was created for me” and “I am but dust and ashes.”
(ב) רַבִּי חֲנִינָא סְגַן הַכֹּהֲנִים אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי מִתְפַּלֵּל בִּשְׁלוֹמָהּ שֶׁל מַלְכוּת, שֶׁאִלְמָלֵא מוֹרָאָהּ, אִישׁ אֶת רֵעֵהוּ חַיִּים בְּלָעוֹ. רַבִּי חֲנִינָא בֶן תְּרַדְיוֹן אוֹמֵר, שְׁנַיִם שֶׁיּוֹשְׁבִין וְאֵין בֵּינֵיהֶן דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה, הֲרֵי זֶה מוֹשַׁב לֵצִים, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים א) וּבְמוֹשַׁב לֵצִים לֹא יָשָׁב. אֲבָל שְׁנַיִם שֶׁיּוֹשְׁבִין וְיֵשׁ בֵּינֵיהֶם דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה, שְׁכִינָה שְׁרוּיָה בֵינֵיהֶם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (מלאכי ג) אָז נִדְבְּרוּ יִרְאֵי יְיָ אִישׁ אֶל רֵעֵהוּ וַיַּקְשֵׁב יְיָ וַיִּשְׁמָע וַיִּכָּתֵב סֵפֶר זִכָּרוֹן לְפָנָיו לְיִרְאֵי יְיָ וּלְחֹשְׁבֵי שְׁמוֹ. אֵין לִי אֶלָּא שְׁנַיִם, מִנַּיִן שֶׁאֲפִלּוּ אֶחָד שֶׁיּוֹשֵׁב וְעוֹסֵק בַּתּוֹרָה, שֶׁהַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא קוֹבֵעַ לוֹ שָׂכָר, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (איכה ג) יֵשֵׁב בָּדָד וְיִדֹּם כִּי נָטַל עָלָיו:
(2) Rabbi Hanina, the vice-high priest said: pray for the welfare of the government, for were it not for the fear it inspires, every man would swallow his neighbor alive. R. Hananiah ben Teradion said: if two sit together and there are no words of Torah [spoken] between them, then this is a session of scorners, as it is said: “nor sat he in the seat of the scornful…[rather, the teaching of the Lord is his delight]” (Psalms 1:1); but if two sit together and there are words of Torah [spoken] between them, then the Shekhinah abides among them, as it is said: “then they that feared the Lord spoke one with another; and the Lord hearkened and heard, and a book of remembrance was written before Him, for them that feared the Lord and that thought upon His name” (Malachi 3:16). Now I have no [scriptural proof for the presence of the Shekhinah] except [among] two, how [do we know] that even one who sits and studies Torah the Holy One, blessed be He, fixes his reward? As it is said: “though he sit alone and [meditate] in stillness, yet he takes [a reward] unto himself” (Lamentations 3:28).
בִּשְׁלוֹמָהּ
Pray also for the peace of the government, as in that the government be peaceful and inspire peace in its citizens.
שְׁנַיִם שֶׁיּוֹשְׁבִין וְאֵין בֵּינֵיהֶן דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה
Between them words of Torah can mean both that words of Torah are spoken between them, but it also can mean that words of Torah are exchanged in other ways between them, such as by treating another person respecting the fact that they are made in the image of the Divine. If there are no words of Torah between them, it can mean that they are not treating each other as if they are in the image of the Divine.
לְחֹשְׁבֵי שְׁמוֹ
This teaches that we should think of Hashem when speaking with another. If we think of Hashem, we will bring this to light in our words and demeanor of speaking with them. We also should be careful not only to speak of trivial things, but through considering the importance of Hashem in speaking our words, we will be brought to a greater version of ourselves.
וְיֵשׁ בֵּינֵיהֶם דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה,
The words should be shared as equals, between them. We all have something to learn from everyone, even from people who someone might view as less learned in Torah than themself.
יֵשֵׁב בָּדָד וְיִדֹּם כִּי נָטַל עָלָיו
Even sitting alone and thinking of Hashem’s greatness and loving-kindness has merit.
(ג) רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר, שְׁלשָׁה שֶׁאָכְלוּ עַל שֻׁלְחָן אֶחָד וְלֹא אָמְרוּ עָלָיו דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה, כְּאִלּוּ אָכְלוּ מִזִּבְחֵי מֵתִים, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (ישעיה כח) כִּי כָּל שֻׁלְחָנוֹת מָלְאוּ קִיא צֹאָה בְּלִי מָקוֹם. אֲבָל שְׁלשָׁה שֶׁאָכְלוּ עַל שֻׁלְחָן אֶחָד וְאָמְרוּ עָלָיו דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה, כְּאִלּוּ אָכְלוּ מִשֻּׁלְחָנוֹ שֶׁל מָקוֹם בָּרוּךְ הוּא, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (יחזקאל מא) וַיְדַבֵּר אֵלַי זֶה הַשֻּׁלְחָן אֲשֶׁר לִפְנֵי ה':
(3) Rabbi Shimon said: if three have eaten at one table and have not spoken there words of Torah, [it is] as if they had eaten sacrifices [offered] to the dead, as it is said, “for all tables are full of filthy vomit, when the All-Present is absent” (Isaiah 28:8). But, if three have eaten at one table, and have spoken there words of Torah, [it is] as if they had eaten at the table of the All-Present, blessed be He, as it is said, “And He said unto me, ‘this is the table before the Lord’” (Ezekiel 41:22).
אָמְרוּ עָלָיו דִּבְרֵי תוֹרָה
When three are sitting and eating together, it is emphasized that these words of Torah must be spoken out loud. They have to be explicitly shared through the mouth, the same place where our eating happens. This allows us to focus on the spirituality of providing nourishment, of where this nourishment comes from, and of the way our bodies are created by Hashem. We provide spiritual nourishment to others through our words of Torah from the same place our physical nourishment is taken in.
מִזִּבְחֵי מֵתִים
Our shulchan is said to be a place analogized to the mizbeach. We can allow this place to take us closer to Hashem, through words as an offering to Hashem, or our words can be like an offering to the dead.
(ד) רַבִּי חֲנִינָא בֶן חֲכִינַאי אוֹמֵר, הַנֵּעוֹר בַּלַּיְלָה וְהַמְהַלֵּךְ בַּדֶּרֶךְ יְחִידִי וְהַמְפַנֶּה לִבּוֹ לְבַטָּלָה, הֲרֵי זֶה מִתְחַיֵּב בְּנַפְשׁוֹ:
(4) Rabbi Hananiah ben Hakinai said: one who wakes up at night, or walks on the way alone and turns his heart to idle matters, behold, this man is mortally guilty.
When we are afraid, we should turn to Hashem. Torah study can be a way we can comfort ourselves in times of fear, because it shows us Hashem is always present. If we do not seek out Hashem in our lowest places, in our moments when we are alone, our turning towards Hashem is conditional on being happy and feeling like Hashem is satisfying our desires. We should also turn to Hashem when things are scary.
(ה) רַבִּי נְחוּנְיָא בֶּן הַקָּנָה אוֹמֵר, כָּל הַמְקַבֵּל עָלָיו עֹל תּוֹרָה, מַעֲבִירִין מִמֶּנּוּ עֹל מַלְכוּת וְעֹל דֶּרֶךְ אֶרֶץ. וְכָל הַפּוֹרֵק מִמֶּנּוּ עֹל תּוֹרָה, נוֹתְנִין עָלָיו עֹל מַלְכוּת וְעֹל דֶּרֶךְ אֶרֶץ:
(5) Rabbi Nehunia ben Hakkanah said: whoever takes upon himself the yoke of the Torah, they remove from him the yoke of government and the yoke of worldly concerns, and whoever breaks off from himself the yoke of the Torah, they place upon him the yoke of government and the yoke of worldly concerns.
When we turn to Hashem, we realize the true importance and our true purpose in this world is in how we serve Hashem, not in power or worldly manners. Therefore, the yoke of these problems is removed, because even if they do cause problems for us, we trust that Hashem will help us through it.
(ו) רַבִּי חֲלַפְתָּא בֶן דּוֹסָא אִישׁ כְּפַר חֲנַנְיָה אוֹמֵר, עֲשָׂרָה שֶׁיּוֹשְׁבִין וְעוֹסְקִין בַּתּוֹרָה, שְׁכִינָה שְׁרוּיָה בֵינֵיהֶם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים פב) אֱלֹהִים נִצָּב בַּעֲדַת אֵל. וּמִנַּיִן אֲפִלּוּ חֲמִשָּׁה, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (עמוס ט) וַאֲגֻדָּתוֹ עַל אֶרֶץ יְסָדָהּ. וּמִנַּיִן אֲפִלּוּ שְׁלשָׁה, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (תהלים פב) בְּקֶרֶב אֱלֹהִים יִשְׁפֹּט. וּמִנַּיִן אֲפִלּוּ שְׁנַיִם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (מלאכי ג) אָז נִדְבְּרוּ יִרְאֵי ה' אִישׁ אֶל רֵעֵהוּ וַיַּקְשֵׁב ה' וַיִּשְׁמָע וְגוֹ'. וּמִנַּיִן אֲפִלּוּ אֶחָד, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (שמות כ) בְּכָל הַמָּקוֹם אֲשֶׁר אַזְכִּיר אֶת שְׁמִי אָבֹא אֵלֶיךָ וּבֵרַכְתִּיךָ:
(6) Rabbi Halafta of Kefar Hanania said: when ten sit together and occupy themselves with Torah, the Shechinah abides among them, as it is said: “God stands in the congregation of God” (Psalm 82:1). How do we know that the same is true even of five? As it is said: “This band of His He has established on earth” (Amos 9:6). How do we know that the same is true even of three? As it is said: “In the midst of the judges He judges” (Psalm 82:1) How do we know that the same is true even of two? As it is said: “Then they that fear the Lord spoke one with another, and the Lord hearkened, and heard” (Malachi 3:16). How do we know that the same is true even of one? As it is said: “In every place where I cause my name to be mentioned I will come unto you and bless you” (Exodus 20:21).
Did it not say that when even only two sit together and there are words of Torah between them, that the Shechinah abides among them? Why does it then prove this over again with different verses? This teaches that even when an individual seeks a relationship with Hashem and occupies themselves with serving Hashem, whether they do so in a group of ten, or by themselves, the Shechinah abides there. There is some amount of sanctity when any group of people come together to pray or study Torah, even though some prayers require a minyan to say.
(ז) רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר אִישׁ בַּרְתּוֹתָא אוֹמֵר, תֶּן לוֹ מִשֶּׁלּוֹ, שֶׁאַתָּה וְשֶׁלְּךָ שֶׁלּוֹ. וְכֵן בְּדָוִד הוּא אוֹמֵר (דברי הימים א כט) כִּי מִמְּךָ הַכֹּל וּמִיָּדְךָ נָתַנּוּ לָךְ. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר, הַמְהַלֵּךְ בַּדֶּרֶךְ וְשׁוֹנֶה, וּמַפְסִיק מִמִּשְׁנָתוֹ וְאוֹמֵר, מַה נָּאֶה אִילָן זֶה וּמַה נָּאֶה נִיר זֶה, מַעֲלֶה עָלָיו הַכָּתוּב כְּאִלּוּ מִתְחַיֵּב בְּנַפְשׁוֹ:
(7) Rabbi Elazar of Bartotha said: give to Him of that which is His, for you and that which is yours is His; and thus it says with regards to David: “for everything comes from You, and from Your own hand have we given you” (I Chronicles 29:14). Rabbi Jacob said: if one is studying while walking on the road and interrupts his study and says, “how fine is this tree!” [or] “how fine is this newly ploughed field!” scripture accounts it to him as if he was mortally guilty.
Perhaps the real sin the second person does is not giving acknowledgment to Hashem in His creation of these things of nature? The person in this situation spends his time learning Torah, but he doesn’t incorporate the knowledge that natural beauty comes from Hashem into his statements. Perhaps this person views acknowledging natural beauty as separate to his Torah studies, when really he can incorporate the natural beauty into his Torah study as another way he is amazed at the things Hashem created. This relates to Rabbi Elazar’s statement of giving to Him what is His.
(ח) רַבִּי דּוֹסְתַּאי בְּרַבִּי יַנַּאי מִשּׁוּם רַבִּי מֵאִיר אוֹמֵר, כָּל הַשּׁוֹכֵחַ דָּבָר אֶחָד מִמִּשְׁנָתוֹ, מַעֲלֶה עָלָיו הַכָּתוּב כְּאִלּוּ מִתְחַיֵּב בְּנַפְשׁוֹ, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (דברים ד) רַק הִשָּׁמֶר לְךָ וּשְׁמֹר נַפְשְׁךָ מְאֹד פֶּן תִּשְׁכַּח אֶת הַדְּבָרִים אֲשֶׁר רָאוּ עֵינֶיךָ. יָכוֹל אֲפִלּוּ תָקְפָה עָלָיו מִשְׁנָתוֹ, תַּלְמוּד לוֹמַר (שם) וּפֶן יָסוּרוּ מִלְּבָבְךָ כֹּל יְמֵי חַיֶּיךָ, הָא אֵינוֹ מִתְחַיֵּב בְּנַפְשׁוֹ עַד שֶׁיֵּשֵׁב וִיסִירֵם מִלִּבּוֹ:
(8) Rabbi Dostai ben Rabbi Yannai said in the name of Rabbi Meir: whoever forgets one word of his study, scripture accounts it to him as if he were mortally guilty, as it is said, “But take utmost care and watch yourselves scrupulously, so that you do not forget the things that you saw with your own eyes” (Deuteronomy 4:9). One could [have inferred that this is the case] even when his study proved [too] hard for him, therefore scripture says, “that they do not fade from your mind as long as you live” (ibid.). Thus, he is not mortally guilty unless he deliberately removes them from his heart.
The rabbis in teaching other people from heart in their time had a huge responsibility of keeping the words straight. If they changed words, this could have changed the way people interpreted the statements of other rabbis. Therefore it is very important that they not be forgetful. This is emphasized by this mishnah being stated by Rabbi Dostai in the name of Rabbi Yannai in the name of Rabbi Meir. The encouragement is because even a word could change the interpretation of halacha. Still, they are only mortally guilty if they intentionally remove the words from their heart. This could specifically refer to intentionally misquoting teachings so as to manipulate others’ interpretations. People should never use someone's lack of knowledge to manipulate them in a debate about Torah.
(ט) רַבִּי חֲנִינָא בֶן דּוֹסָא אוֹמֵר, כָּל שֶׁיִּרְאַת חֶטְאוֹ קוֹדֶמֶת לְחָכְמָתוֹ, חָכְמָתוֹ מִתְקַיֶּמֶת. וְכָל שֶׁחָכְמָתוֹ קוֹדֶמֶת לְיִרְאַת חֶטְאוֹ, אֵין חָכְמָתוֹ מִתְקַיֶּמֶת. הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, כָּל שֶׁמַּעֲשָׂיו מְרֻבִּין מֵחָכְמָתוֹ, חָכְמָתוֹ מִתְקַיֶּמֶת. וְכָל שֶׁחָכְמָתוֹ מְרֻבָּה מִמַּעֲשָׂיו, אֵין חָכְמָתוֹ מִתְקַיֶּמֶת:
(9) Rabbi Hanina ben Dosa said: anyone whose fear of sin precedes his wisdom, his wisdom is enduring, but anyone whose wisdom precedes his fear of sin, his wisdom is not enduring. He [also] used to say: anyone whose deeds exceed his wisdom, his wisdom is enduring, but anyone whose wisdom exceeds his deeds, his wisdom is not enduring.
Wisdom is only a good trait when it is paired with greater fear of sin and of Hashem. People could misuse wisdom, using it to prove their point or to make a foolproof argument for their opinion. This is fine, if it is done in the interest of distancing oneself and others for sins, not just for the gain of earthly glory. Someone who does not fear sin will use their wisdom to prove they are right, rather than trying to arrive at the correct halachic conclusion. They will go into their learning trying to find one specific answer that they favor, rather than learning to find the best answer.
Wisdom should also encourage someone to act helpfully and kindly towards others. One with wisdom and not good deeds is misusing their wisdom. It is important to focus on other middot, not just wisdom. Even a wise person can sin, and must learn how to do teshuvah and try not to sin in the future.
(י) הוּא הָיָה אוֹמֵר, כָּל שֶׁרוּחַ הַבְּרִיּוֹת נוֹחָה הֵימֶנּוּ, רוּחַ הַמָּקוֹם נוֹחָה הֵימֶנּוּ. וְכָל שֶׁאֵין רוּחַ הַבְּרִיּוֹת נוֹחָה הֵימֶנּוּ, אֵין רוּחַ הַמָּקוֹם נוֹחָה הֵימֶנּוּ. רַבִּי דוֹסָא בֶן הַרְכִּינַס אוֹמֵר, שֵׁנָה שֶׁל שַׁחֲרִית, וְיַיִן שֶׁל צָהֳרַיִם, וְשִׂיחַת הַיְלָדִים, וִישִׁיבַת בָּתֵּי כְנֵסִיּוֹת שֶׁל עַמֵּי הָאָרֶץ, מוֹצִיאִין אֶת הָאָדָם מִן הָעוֹלָם:
(10) He used to say: one with whom men are pleased, God is pleased. But anyone from whom men are displeased, God is displeased. Rabbi Dosa ben Harkinas said: morning sleep, midday wine, children’s talk and sitting in the assemblies of the ignorant put a man out of the world.
We should strive to interact with others in a way that they will be pleased with us, to the best of our abilities. We can’t please everyone, but through being a good person and treating others with kindness, we can inspire kindness in return both from others and from Hashem.
שֵׁנָה שֶׁל שַׁחֲרִית, וְיַיִן שֶׁל צָהֳרַיִם, וְשִׂיחַת הַיְלָדִים, וִישִׁיבַת בָּתֵּי כְנֵסִיּוֹת שֶׁל עַמֵּי הָאָרֶץ, מוֹצִיאִין אֶת הָאָדָם מִן הָעוֹלָם:
We should strive to make our morning prayers in a timely fashion, make our afternoon commitments, engage in talk that is meaningful and inspires us towards growth, and to surround ourselves with company that furthers us to new understandings of Torah.
(יא) רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר הַמּוֹדָעִי אוֹמֵר, הַמְחַלֵּל אֶת הַקָּדָשִׁים, וְהַמְבַזֶּה אֶת הַמּוֹעֲדוֹת, וְהַמַּלְבִּין פְּנֵי חֲבֵרוֹ בָרַבִּים, וְהַמֵּפֵר בְּרִיתוֹ שֶׁל אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ עָלָיו הַשָּׁלוֹם, וְהַמְגַלֶּה פָנִים בַּתּוֹרָה שֶׁלֹּא כַהֲלָכָה, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁיֵּשׁ בְּיָדוֹ תוֹרָה וּמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים, אֵין לוֹ חֵלֶק לָעוֹלָם הַבָּא:
(11) Rabbi Elazar of Modiin said: one who profanes sacred things, and one who despises the festivals, and one who causes his fellow’s face to blush in public, and one who annuls the covenant of our father Abraham, may he rest in peace, and he who is contemptuous towards the Torah, even though he has to his credit [knowledge of the] Torah and good deeds, he has not a share in the world to come.
הַמְחַלֵּל אֶת הַקָּדָשִׁים
We should strive to keep the profane and the sacred separate.
וְהַמְבַזֶּה אֶת הַמּוֹעֲדוֹת
We should strive to find simcha in our festivals, not dread them or find them to be burdens.
וְהַמַּלְבִּין פְּנֵי חֲבֵרוֹ בָרַבִּים
We should strive not to embarrass our fellow.
וְהַמֵּפֵר בְּרִיתוֹ שֶׁל אַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ
We should strive to do our part in the covenant with Hashem, to keep up our side of the commitment.
וְהַמְגַלֶּה פָנִים בַּתּוֹרָה שֶׁלֹּא כַהֲלָכָה
We should strive to find the halacha within Torah, not just study it on a surface level as a story. It is the ultimate truth, a way of living, not just something to study for entertainment value.
(יב) רַבִּי יִשְׁמָעֵאל אוֹמֵר, הֱוֵי קַל לְרֹאשׁ, וְנוֹחַ לְתִשְׁחֹרֶת, וֶהֱוֵי מְקַבֵּל אֶת כָּל הָאָדָם בְּשִׂמְחָה:
(12) Rabbi Ishmael said: be suppliant to a superior, submissive under compulsory service, and receive every man happily.
Rabbi Yishmael shows a system of back and forth. While he says there are ways to treat a superior, even the superior has obligations in return, as every person is supposed to greet their fellow person with simcha.
This is a work in progress. This is how far I have gotten.