Parashat Hayyei Sarah: Prayer in the Parashah
Illustration credit: Noa Kelner

Prayer in the Parashah תְּפִלָּה

There are three תְּפִלּוֹת (tefillot, prayer services) that we say every day: שַׁחֲרִית (Shaharit) in the morning, מִנְחָה (Minhah) in the afternoon, and מַעֲרִיב (Maariv)—aka עַרְבִית (Arvit)—at night.
רִבִּי יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בֶּן לֵוִי אָמַר תְּפִילּוֹת מֵאָבוֹת לִמְּדוּם.
תְּפִילַּת הַשַּׁחַר מֵאַבְרָהָם אָבִינוּ - "וַיַּשְׁכֵּם אַבְרָהָם בַּבּוֹקֶר אֶל הַמָּקוֹם אֲשֶׁר עָמַד שָׁם אֶת פְּנֵי ה'." וְאֵין עֲמִידָה אֶלָּא תְפִילָּה…
תְּפִלַּת הַמִּנְחָה מִיִּצְחָק אָבִינוּ - "וַיֵּצֵא יִצְחָק לָשׂוּחַ בַּשָּׂדֶה." וְאֵין שִׂיחָה אֶלָּא תְפִלָּה…
תְּפִילַּת הָעֶרֶב מִיַּעֲקֹב אָבִינוּ "וַיִּפְגַּע בַּמָּקוֹם וַיָּלֶן שָׁם." וְאֵין פְּגִיעָה אֶלָּא תְפִילָּה…
R. Yehoshua ben Levi said: Our tefillot were learned from our avot (forefathers).
Shaharit is from Avraham: “Avraham got up early in the morning to the place where he stood toward the face of God” (Bereishit 19:27). “Standing” means “prayer”...
Minhah is from Yitzhak: “Yitzhak went out to converse in the field before evening” (Bereishit 24:63). “Conversing” means “prayer”...
Maariv is from Yaakov: “Yaakov encountered the place and slept there” (Bereishit 28:11). “Encountering” means “prayer”...
What do these times of the day have to do with these specific avot?
Avraham & Shaharit
The morning is the time when light comes into the world after the darkness of night. Bereishit Rabbah 2:3 says that Avraham brought a different kind of light into the world through finding and sharing his faith in God, and that even God’s creation of light (Bereishit 1:3) is talking about Avraham and the light of faith he brought into the world.
Yitzhak & Minhah
R. Avraham Yitzhak HaKohen Kook (150 years ago) says it's especially hard to say Minhah because it's in the middle of the afternoon when people are super busy with all the things they do during the day (Ein Aya, v. 1, n. 60). But Yitzhak was someone who was able to connect to God at the same time as he was also deeply involved in the rest of the world (Menahem Tzion, v. 1, Bereishit 24:63).
Yaakov & Maariv
Maariv is said at night, which can be a time of feeling alone or afraid of the dark. R. Yehudah Aryeh Leib of Gur (150 years ago) suggests that Yaakov experienced that in his own way. He had to run away from his home when Esav threatened to kill him, so he was both alone and afraid. And it was then, in the middle of the night, that he connected with God and dreamt of the angels climbing up and down the ladder (Sefat Emet, Vayishlah 5644).
  • Why do you think it’s important to pray to God at three different times of the day?
  • How do Shaharit, Minhah, and Maariv feel different from each other? How do your tefillot feel different depending on when you’re praying?
  • Try it! Think about Avraham next time you say Shaharit, Yitzhak at Minhah, and Yaakov at Maariv. Does this affect your concentration or intention while you pray?
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